If you have submitted an online application for a residence permit, you should schedule an appointment after the Swedish Migration Agency has asked you to do so.
It is important that you state the control or case number and personal details of all family members that are applying. Use the form here to book an appointment: "Book an appointment".
You can find more information here: https://www.swedenabroad.se/en/about-sweden-non-swedish-citizens/jordan/going-to-sweden/moving-to-someone-in-sweden/how-to-apply/
If you already have an interview booked at another mission it will be cancelled when you book an interview at the Embassy of Sweden in Amman.